Ben was born Nov 2, 2000 is now 20 months old.  He has changed so much over the past year and a half.  He has also started talking much more than he used to.  He has even started to say "please" without being prompted - especially for crackers.  Benjamin loves his little brother, too.  They've actually started to play together on a somewhat limited basis.  It's wonderful to see them enjoying each others company.